The first trait is a must. Call me superficial, call me shallow, but I believe that a guy should always have average or above average looks. After all, who would want to date someone who looks no appealing, let alone look at his face for the rest of your life? However, my definition of average is quite broad, meaning that I don't have extremely high standards, so I believe that it's alright.
Next, I believe that a guy must be respectful. Respectful can be defined in many ways. One is where the guy will acknowledge my likes and dislikes, my hobbies and interests, etc., and learn to accept and tolerate them. Another way to look at it, and this is the more important way in my opinion, is whether a guy knows when to give me my space and my privacy. To me, there are times when I want to be alone, when I don't want to deal with a boyfriend, and I expect the guy to respect my wishes.
The third trait is that a guy should be attentive, meaning that he should look for the small details concerning me (or about me), and then use the knowledge to his advantage to show me that he does care about me. This one is kind of hard to explain, but I guess most girls would understand what I'm trying to say.
I also believe that a guy should have a certain degree of humor. The reason? Because it makes interacting with the guy more interesting and less awkward, and it opens up interaction between the two of us, which can lead to discussions about who we are and what we are about.
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